Of course, oral sex isn’t a competition. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t a ton of crafty ways to make it more fun (for everyone involved). Just like the rest of your sex routine, oral benefits from regularly mixing it up. So whether you feel like your giving/getting routine is in a rut or you’re just always trying to improve all the horny aspects of your life, here are 27 (yes, 27!) tips to make sure both of you are at the absolute top of your oral game.
1. Narrate the whole thing.
Yes, your mouth may be occupied, but when you have—ahem—a spare moment, tell your partner exactly what you’re doing and how. There’s more than one way to use your mouth for sex, after all.
2. Get creative with positions.
Penetrative sex shouldn’t get all the fun body contortions. Mix up your oral game by physically moving around and trying new positions, just like you do in the rest of your sex life. The more body parts that are in the air, the better.
3. Do it spontaneously.
Whether you’re bored as fuck watching some documentary or just randomly got horny at the breakfast table, turn a mundane situation into an extremely thrilling one with a quick oral sesh (always, of course, with the full enthusiastic consent from your partner). A rut can also look like doing very exciting sex things always at the same time/in the same place. Mix it all up by bringing your sex life into new and unexpected places.
4. Bring in some toy assistance.
If your mouth and hands are tired (they do a lot of work all day, we get it!), or even if they’re not, you both can and should bring in some nonhuman assistance. With your partner’s permission, add a butt plug or anal beads to up the ante.